The Digital Shutterbug (aryx) wrote,
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So I talked with my friend at work again, the one who I'm interested in.
The guy who dumped her wants to try to get back together with her.
He says he still loves her, and she loves him.
But she is confused. She told him that she doesn't trust that he won't do it again.
She didn't ask me what she should do, and I didn't tell her.
But she asked me what it means when a guy says he's coming back to her.
They went out dancing over the weekend, she said it felt like things were the same as before, except that they didn't talk the same.
She admitted to him that she was confused.
I felt like telling her forget about it.
Of course, that's because I'm interested.
I don't know what she'll do, because she doesn't know what she wants to do.
I'm hoping that she finally just says it can't work because of her loss of trust in the guy.
So, I'm going to be patient and wait.
I just wish I knew how long to wait.
I was tempted to ask her out just so that she could tell the guy that she has others that are interested in taking her out and that he blew it big time.
So far, I am still the only one she seems comfortable talking about all this.
She tried to apologize for always ranting on the subject when we go on our breaks.
I told her it was okay, because she had to let it out, and that she was also thinking while she was talking. Sometimes it helps to talk when you think about these kinds of situations.

So what should I do? Should I wait and give her a chance to get over her last relationship? Or should I go ahead and ask her out now, but wait to actually go out until she's ready? Or should I just ask her out for lunch (we both work night) and give her the opportunity to get to know me better now?
I don't want to wait too long, but I don't how long I should give her.
Anyone have any ideas or advice for me?

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